Where do truly Great Christmas Gift Ideas come from? One thing’s certain, they don’t come from someone telling you what they want… That’s like cheating at poker. The great Christmas gift ideas come from discovery and insight and fun and playfulness.
If you need to be told what a great Christmas gift idea is for a particular person, then it’s not a great idea – it has to be figured out – studied – considered…
This is the first capacity required in order to accomplish the goal of a great Christmas gift idea. This is what is needed in order to be able to give a great Christmas gift.
It is an art form, really. But it can be learned. And it can be very spontaneous and whimsical as well. It is not always serious or deep thinking – sometimes the best ideas are for things that have a particular, different or quirky meaning between you and the other person – sort of like your own inside joke – and these ideas make for excellent fun.
So how do you do it? You pay close attention. You observe the people you care about and notice what matters to them. And then you think of cool ways to surprise them with something that you know is already something they are really going to be excited about -
You give your friend who is a great cook a kitchenaid mixer with lots of cool attachments (this may require a group collaboration – they aren’t cheap) – or you give your green thumb mom a cool new sprinkler that is more of a veritable water dancing fountain than a sprinkler, because you know she has an eye for things like the sparkle of water droplets dancing in sunlight as well as thriving plants. You have to actually think for a while about the person – and plot – and connive and ponder…
You don’t have great Christmas present plans just hatch out of your head all unawares: unless you have, at least at first, spent a little time pondering – enjoying the thought of the person for whom the gift is intended, testing your mind for ideas to get you moving…
After that, it IS time to let it be and see what hatches. That is how it is done according to all the great thinkers of the 19th and 20th centuries…
Trick is to do that first step. Put some real attention to the ‘problem’ and mull it over.
Once you do, you will have serious potential for becoming a great gift giver – not just at Christmas, but all the time. It will also give you the added benefit of pondering the things you really cherish and appreciate in the people around you. But the truly great news is, the more you do it, the better you will get and the more you will naturally notice the good qualities in the people in your life.
So go ahead – have a GREAT Christmas gift idea – Think on it today – sleep on it – and discover it tomorrow!
Good Luck!